{"id":11527,"date":"2024-10-01T12:22:24","date_gmt":"2024-10-01T12:22:24","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/studentsclub.org\/homepage\/cow-in-the-parking-lot-a-zen-approach-to-overcoming-anger\/"},"modified":"2024-10-01T12:22:24","modified_gmt":"2024-10-01T12:22:24","slug":"cow-in-the-parking-lot-a-zen-approach-to-overcoming-anger","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/studentsclub.org\/homepage\/cow-in-the-parking-lot-a-zen-approach-to-overcoming-anger\/","title":{"rendered":"Cow in the Parking Lot: A Zen Approach to Overcoming Anger"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><br \/>\nPrice: <span style=\"color:#b12704\"><del>$14.95<\/del> - $9.99<\/span><br \/><i><small>(as of Oct 01, 2024 12:22:30 UTC &#8211; <span class=\"wp_automatic_amazon_disclaimer\" title=\"Product prices and availability are accurate as of the date\/time indicated and are subject to change. Any price and availability information displayed on [relevant Amazon Site(s), as applicable] at the time of purchase will apply to the purchase of this product.\">Details<\/span>)<\/small><\/i><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/amazon.com\/dp\/0761158154?tag=musadiqhus0f2-20\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/valvepress.s3.amazonaws.com\/imgs\/buy_now.png\"><\/a><br \/>\n<br \/>\n  Don\u2019t get mad. Get calm.<\/p>\n<p> Ask yourself: \u201cDo I really want to be angry?\u201d Leonard Scheff, a trial attorney who used anger to fuel his courtroom persona, realized the answer had to be no. Anger is toxic. Anger is in the eyes of the beholder.<\/p>\n<p> Using simple Buddhist principles and applying them in a way that is easy for non-Buddhists to understand and put into practice, Scheff and Susan Edmiston have created an interactive book that helps readers change perspective, step-by-step, so that they can replace the anger in their lives with newfound happiness. 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